3/ let's now come to the societal problem, from my point of view in our siciety when a woman offers her husband a threesome with another man, she is a generous woman who just wants to bring more spicy action into the bedroom and it would be logical for her husband to accept otherwise he is not a husband who supports his wife's development... and conversely if a man offers his wife a threesome with another woman, he is an PN who considers women as objects, and this woman should not remain married to such a narcissistic pervert.. from my point of opinion there is no point in marriage if the sex life is not intimate , we have a very active sex life with my current wife, we watch porn together and we innovate and try a lot of various practices but it would never come to us to the idea of involving an outside person otherwise where would our vows be in this case, our marriage would become just a simple signed paper and nothing more...
2/ to begin with, about my personal experience, if you reread what I wrote, she talked about it to my friend before talking about it to me, which you will admit is really strange behavior, then my friend who knew me since kindergarten, and he even more than she knew very well that I would never accept being cuckolded. so why would he tell my girlfriend that he would be delighted to do that with "us" and that he did not immediately tell me about my girlfriend's inappropriate and cheating behavior? Their machinations had convinced me them that they had already fucked and cheated on me.
(yes in my opinion even when involved a cheated man remains a cuckold and yes even if a married man knows that his wife is sleeping with other men he remains a cheated man...I will remain firm and will not debate on this point and anyone who asserts the opposite is delusional or completely naive and ignorant).
It’s important to recognize the difference between openness and deception. Your girlfriend communicated her desire for a threesome openly and sought your agreement, which you gave before secretly leaving and cheating. These two actions aren’t the same—she was transparent, while you acted behind her back. It’s surprising you don’t see the difference, as it was your choice to break the trust she offered with her honesty.
this scenario probably written by a woman and the comments under the videos make me laugh..misandry under the guise of pseudo feminism has reached all spheres of society (even porn), there are double standards, a woman who does this is a sexy and strong woman who knows what she wants, a man who does this is a cad and a PN... we wrongly think that it is a new behavior but in fact It's been like this for more 20 years. a long time ago, before being with my current wife, one of my Gfs tried something like this because she had a crush on my best friend and when she talk to him about her idea he was into it, I told them to start that I would join them later and I discreetly left the apartment, 5 or 10 minutes after my departure she was harassing me on the phone asking me where I was, I told her to have fun and that I had something urgent to do... The next day when she learned that I had spent the night with one of her friends who had been flirting with me since the beginning of our relationship, I received all kinds of animals names from my gf at the time, when I told her that she had gotten what she wanted and that I had done the same thing and therefore I didn't understand what the problem was... she said that I was a selfish cheater as well than a manipulator. as previously said double standards, this poor girl made me lose 18 months of my life, fortunately for me I discovered who she was before doing any porposes. cheating remains cheating even when the partner is involved, and a cuckold remains a cuckold even if he is involved, don't let yourself be fooled by phrases like "I would like to share this incredible experience with you" the experiences are lived before to be in a relationship not during, there is nothing to share into that.
(yes in my opinion even when involved a cheated man remains a cuckold and yes even if a married man knows that his wife is sleeping with other men he remains a cheated man...I will remain firm and will not debate on this point and anyone who asserts the opposite is delusional or completely naive and ignorant).
a long time ago, before being with my current wife, one of my Gfs tried something like this because she had a crush on my best friend and when she talk to him about her idea he was into it, I told them to start that I would join them later and I discreetly left the apartment, 5 or 10 minutes after my departure she was harassing me on the phone asking me where I was, I told her to have fun and that I had something urgent to do... The next day when she learned that I had spent the night with one of her friends who had been flirting with me since the beginning of our relationship, I received all kinds of animals names from my gf at the time, when I told her that she had gotten what she wanted and that I had done the same thing and therefore I didn't understand what the problem was... she said that I was a selfish cheater as well than a manipulator.
as previously said double standards, this poor girl made me lose 18 months of my life, fortunately for me I discovered who she was before doing any porposes.
cheating remains cheating even when the partner is involved, and a cuckold remains a cuckold even if he is involved, don't let yourself be fooled by phrases like "I would like to share this incredible experience with you" the experiences are lived before to be in a relationship not during, there is nothing to share into that.